
Single Dad Who Went Viral After Mom Abandoned Baby Says the Family Is Done Posting Updates
By Pippa RagaUpdated July 20 2018, 1:54 p.m. ET
I kind of feel like single dads get the short end of the stick. It can be awkward to take your kid to a playground full of moms, or to host a playdate when you know some parents are uncomfortable with the thought of leaving their daughter with just you, a single man.
It’s also true that we’re members of a society that puts single moms on a pedestal while kind of looking down on dads who do the parenting thing on their own. That's probably why we love stories where single dads triumph over hardship and come out on top. Plus, who doesn't love it when dads go above and beyond to be loving, caring, and devoted to their kids?
Richard Johnson's story was one that many parents could identify with, and one that touched many hearts.
Back in 2015, Richard introduced himself to the Facebook group Life of Dad. He wrote,
Life of Dad, My name is Richard Johnson, and I'm a single father to a beautiful little girl named Persephone. Her...
Posted by Life of Dad on Tuesday, November 10, 2015The post got close to 100k Likes, and it opened up a conversation where other parents shared their stories.
A strong community is crucial when it comes to single parenting. After all, as Richard himself explained, it was reading about others in a similar situation that helped him persevere with Persephone in the months after her mom abruptly left.
In fact, the Life of Dad post got so much attention that Richard posted a heartwarming and vulnerable follow-up about how humbled he was by the internet's comments.
"You truly can't understand how much everyone's words mean to me. I am constantly criticizing myself on how I can be a better father and this was just the right medicine I needed," he shared.I honestly don't know what to say. I've been reading everyone's comments and I'd be lying if I said I haven't became a...
Posted by Life of Dad on Wednesday, November 11, 2015*cries silently into computer*
The internet displayed such a tenderness and affection for Richard's story that he decided to start a Facebook page exclusively dedicated to documenting their father-daughter journey.
Over the years, Richard has opened up about medical hardships Persephone endured, and how she came out resilient.
"I am proud to announce after a 3 hour long ultrasound, grunts and groans from our Doctor. Miss Persephone Lilith Johnson's heart is now at 100% health," he wrote one day.
So as many of you have known, Persephone was born with 2 holes in her heart and her right heart valve did not function...
Posted by Persephone & Richard Johnson on Sunday, December 6, 2015He even shared some funny memes, proving that he'll no doubt be a pretty cool dad to grow up around.
They celebrated her birthdays in the most adorable ways possible, with her dad — who has an obvious knack for moving us to tears with his words — sharing updates like this one:
One year and 24 minutes ago. My beautiful baby girl was born. She changed my entire life. Breathed new hope into a broken man. Gave me hope for a better future. You calmed a storm within me. I can never understand how such luck was bestowed upon me. I certainly did not deserve it.Miss Persephone Lilith, you are so deeply loved by so many people. You sparked an incredible amount of hope and love. They say the child learns for the parent, however I feel I am learning more from you than you ever could from me. I look at you and can't just help feel like everything will work out the way it should. Oh princess, this year with you has head so much for us. We have met so many wonderful and beautiful people. You've captured the heart of each. Persephone, I haven't been the greatest guy for a majority of my life, I was a man you would have not been proud of. I strive everyday to make sure I can be one you'll be proud of. So you will know without a single doubt in your mind that you are severely loved. I love you so very much. You're painfully perfect and I just cannot express how grateful I am to have you.
I'm going to give you the world one day Miss Lilith. I'll work myself to death to do it. Everything you can ever want will be yours or I'm going to die trying.
Happy birthday my angel. Don't ever lose the joy you hold in your heart and never forget to smile.Love, Daddy.
In the two or so years since she was born, over five thousand people around the world have followed along as she took important calls, put on cool outfits, and ate very delicious food.
We even watched as precious Persephone (Percy, as they occasionally nickname her) got a new mom. In a heartwarming post about a year and a half into running his Facebook page, Richard posted:
"This lovely lady is my girlfriend and Persephone wonderful and gorgeous Mother Jennifer. We've waited a while to have anything on this page however Jennifer has been an amazing mother to Persephone."He shares how the two met at a mall when she helped him pick clothes for Persephone.
I explained that I wasn't sure what actually matched and need some pointers considering my own closet had consisted of nothing but black, faded black, and dark black clothes. We had talked for months before I allowed her to meet Persephone. Upon meeting her Persephone had made the choice that this would be her mommy.For all of you who have our personal Facebook this won't come as a surprise. This lovely lady is my girlfriend and...
Posted by Persephone & Richard Johnson on Sunday, April 2, 2017Since then, we've been witness to some fun family caricatures, Halloween costumes, and hockey games. To all the thousands of followers who have been there from the beginning, the Johnsons feel like family.
So we've been on a much deserved vacation in beautiful San Diego and we decided to have our drawing done! This was the awesome result!
Posted by Persephone & Richard Johnson on Friday, April 7, 2017Hope everybody is having fun during this wonderful fall season. October is Richard’s favorite time of the year because...
Posted by Persephone & Richard Johnson on Tuesday, October 24, 2017Happy Halloween everyone!
Posted by Persephone & Richard Johnson on Tuesday, October 31, 2017Which is why many were sad when Richard revealed earlier this month that he would stop posting on the page.
"It saddens me to announce that we will no longer be updating this page nor responding to anything. We have decided to let the page go silent. I will certainly save everything so Persephone can see everything when it’s finally time to tell her the story," he wrote.It’s possible we will pick the page up again some other time down the line. You have all made a “chapter” in the book we call life.I thank you all again for everything. Take care and keep writing your own story! It’s never truly over.
As Richard shared on his page years ago, "Life isn't about when the book ends, it's about how you decide to start the next story in your series."
We wish you a great next story, Richard and Persephone!
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